Friendship is a wonderful feeling without which life is simply impossible. It is happiness to have friends who come to the aid in difficult times and who you can meet and chat with, share your, women's, secrets and just chat. But, unfortunately, there is such a type of "girlfriends" who, having made friends with you, begin to abuse your good attitude and try to take up too much space in your life.
Instruction manual
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Some friends perceive friendship as the acquisition of a kind of license for your personal time and space. Such a person does not need to call or appear at your place at any time of the day or night, throwing a heap of his problems on you, including material ones. Your timid objections and attempts to call for respect at least to your sleep or your personal space will not lead to anything. Such people can only understand the solid: "No!" No matter how you sympathize with her and no matter how soft your character may be, you just need to learn how to pronounce the words of denial. Try it, and do not hesitate - such people do not understand other words.
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There are friends - energy vampires. She will never appear in your house with good news. Arriving, she will complain all the same boss or husband, whom he works with, or with whom he has been living for more than a dozen years. After she leaves, you feel like squeezed lemon. Someday you will get tired of experiencing and giving the same advice that no one is going to follow. Just ask such a friend to never discuss these topics with you in an ultimatum form. After all, your nerves and peace of mind are not endless. If she stops seeing you as a grateful listener and donor, her visits will cease by themselves.
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But there are also friends who, on the contrary, are too interested in your life. At first it’s flattering, but over time, such arrogance can also get bored. If a person does not have his personal life, he involuntarily lives the life of other people. This is also not normal, because such information about you can at any time become a subject of discussion in other companies. Keep your distance and gradually you will lose the interest of such a “girlfriend”.
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A true friend who respects and loves you will never abuse your friendship. Therefore, all who are too annoying, care, first of all, about themselves. These are egoists who, by and large, do not care about your feelings. Know how to cut off such people. Do not stand on ceremony with them. You can say your feelings in plain text. If a person really values your friendship and wants to keep it, he will understand your discontent and reconsider his attitude. If this does not happen, such a girlfriend will simply disappear from your life, and you should not regret it.