Moms are different. Strict and kind, a business woman and housewives, overly patronized and do not care. I'd like to be the perfect mother. So sometimes you get upset by reading some clever psychological article and analyzing your behavior. Again, you think you did everything wrong. It doesn't matter which mother is right or not. It didn't matter if she would scold or praise. Anyway, how to bring up. The main thing is that she be!
Instruction manual
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Strict mom. A too strict mom’s child will grow up obedient, neat and diligent. Out of fear or habit, he will be a diligent student and conscientious worker. Polite and modest, he will not dream of the great, dream of glory or stunning success. And even if she falls in love with the most beautiful girl in the class, she never dares to admit it to her. He cannot even think that such a girl would notice him. And she would have noticed …
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If only a little more to the son of pride, healthy recklessness, finally, just self-confidence. And a little less fears and inferiority complex. In this case, not only the girl would pay attention to him, but also the boss. Yes, you never know who else! And all life could have been different.
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Snow queens are usually always very busy in the service, because they occupy a very responsible position. Many of them believe: in order to earn the respect of a son or daughter, you must at least manage the company, sign international contracts or, at worst, fly into space.
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Snow Queens bring up independence in children from an early age, do their best to instill in them a sense of responsibility and self-care skills, which in itself is wonderful, but … Being an appointed mother as an adult, when she decided this, and as an independent for seven years eight, a little man, crying more than once in a pillow from a lack of spiritual warmth, becomes either as cold and mean for feelings as a mother, or an ordinary neurasthenic. However, it’s quite rare that people are found who, somewhere deep down in their hearts, do not have a slight shadow of childish resentment at a very busy mother who was never at home, no matter how you put the word “eternity”.