It seems to be who cares who you are dating or what you are doing. However, one has only to move away from the unspoken rules, as you immediately run the risk of confronting misunderstanding at best, and condemnation at worst. And the most unpleasant thing is that you get unnoticed by someone else’s opinion, and there is a chance to live a life according to other people's laws.
The wedding is canceled
Everyone around says that it’s time to get married and have children. Moreover, there is a reliable man nearby. So also all the friends around are already mothers with many children. And so, a dress was bought, a restaurant was ordered, guests were invited. But the day before the wedding, you clearly realized that you were not ready for the wedding, especially with this person. Of course, you can go down the aisle for the sake of decency. To sacrifice your happiness, but to please others. But why? So do not drag out the situation - nobody needs it. It will be much more honest to say about this man. Like you, he will be able to find his happiness. It is much worse to live a few years in quarrels and dislikes, and then get a divorce.
I love a man younger than myself
Men are different not only in appearance, but also in perception of the world. And at 25 you can be a mature person. Therefore, if you fell in love with a man many years younger than yourself, do not be afraid to declare this. Mutual love is a rarity and should be appreciated. Do not let prejudice affect your life. Introduce the chosen one to your near and dear ones, otherwise he might think that you are ashamed of him. And remember, if he was able to charm you, then he will surely appeal to your relatives. Although it may take more time.
I don't want children
The idea that every woman should have children has long been rooted in our society. And by a certain age it is also desirable to give birth. Society condemns and disapproves of childfree supporters. And on the one hand it’s understandable when parents start asking questions: “When will you get pregnant?”, “When will you give birth to a baby?” - because they dream of grandchildren. And it’s very strange to hear these same questions from colleagues and neighbors. They have absolutely nothing to do with your life. So stop making excuses to them. Close this question and stop any talk on this topic. If you select this position, then interest in this topic will disappear very quickly. The issue of childbearing is very serious and it’s absolutely impossible to follow someone’s question. A child should be given birth only when you really want it with all your heart.