Dependence on other people's opinions and other people's gossip is a sign of self-doubt. Fear of not being like everyone else. Is it necessary? It's time to accept yourself, love yourself and build your best life, the one you dream about!
We often encounter situations when people with an individual character, taste and temperament “push” them or change them to be similar to their close circle, to join the company. In order to have a good rest, relax and enjoy, do you need to think about how other people will react? What will they say, like or not?
For them, likes / dislikes, comments and reposts are of great importance. Many began to smile, say, do something not for their pleasure, but to show, saying, "I have everything cool, I am rich, happy, in love, I have everything, I am like you!". As a rule, such a person removes the “happiness” mask afterwards, sighs heavily and goes on to go about his business, without telling anyone or showing them to anyone. And some (the strangest, according to some opinions) can repel good people from themselves, only because they can not get a beautiful photo or friends may not understand it. Why is all this done? To not condemn others? If real friends and understanding, adequate people are near you, they will understand and accept you as you are.
An abstract example: one girl is a music lover, but loves pop music and hip-hop more, so much so that she sways and wants to move and move. She feels good from this, she completely relaxes and moves as she wants. On the day of her friend’s birthday, she and the big company had a good rest and, of course, came off to music. Almost all of them wrote stories on Instagram, absolutely not caring about anything. A few days later, when she met with her young man the best friend of the family, she received a disapproving look with the words: “I was amazed when I saw it all. What are you listening to, what are you doing? It’s as if you are 16 years old, what is it is that? " (man listens to rock). What is wrong with listening to what she likes? Walking with friends who suit her and she is well with them? Why should we adapt to people just so that they do not blame us, again, in their opinion. Friends are support, not criticism, of everything that they themselves do not like.
Most likely, the main reason is self-doubt and, as a consequence, a craving for imaginary authorities. A person seeks this or that approval. But in fact, he does not need this approval. An individual with his own opinion, decision and his own actions is a person. A person will be loved, respected, afraid and proud.
So, let's finally get rid of the dependence of opinions and begin to live the way we ourselves want it to. Work where we want, relax as we want, make friends / live / meet with whom we want, etc. Be personalities, be personalities!