What does every woman want in a relationship with a man? Respect, understanding and love. Achieving the desired is simple if the woman knows how to behave with her companion. Only three simple, but very significant rules can change relationships and raise them to the proper level.
Instruction manual
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Rule 1. The purpose of the conversation is an important point for a man
What is the main mistake of women? They tend to speak vaguely, voluminously
In other words, they come from far away! And this is understandable, because the female half is more attracted to the process itself. For a man in a conversation there should be a guideline, clearly formulated problem or goal. Do not start the dialogue with the phrase: "Let's talk about us."
."The man will most likely not show interest in the conversation or this“ interest ”will be enough for a few minutes. In the worst case, he will start arguing or postpone the conversation at all. If you often practice“ vagueness ”, the man will cease to take his companion seriously and lose interest.
Decision
The introduction to the conversation should be concise and specific. A woman should immediately voice what she expects from a conversation and from her companion. Questions should be clear. For example: "Your opinion is important to me, dear. What do you think are the strengths and weaknesses of our relationship with you?" All hints and “wagging” should be excluded from the dialogue.
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Rule 2. Men think in silence
Women and men are arranged differently. And this is a well-known fact. If women ponder out loud, ponder something, express their complaints and feelings, then men - on the contrary. They all carry within themselves and rarely open this “suitcase”. In addition, they are annoyed by daily female monologues about problems that they can handle on their own. Under such pressure, the partner can become nervous and quick-tempered, and the relationship will crack.
Decision
A woman should add a significant spoonful of meaning to a barrel of gender misunderstanding. She must explain that “thinking out loud” is very important for her, that it’s so possible to relieve stress and find a solution more quickly, and a man simply needs emotional support. But you should not be intrusive. For such conversations, the right time and desire for a companion is important.
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Rule 3. Men find it difficult to express feelings
Often women blame their men for insensibility, inability to express emotions. And this is mistake number three. A man in this situation may "fall into silence." Because of the constant claims and reproaches, he will simply not be interested in talking to a woman, he will begin to “quietly suffer” from misunderstanding, will be angry, annoyed, accuse his companion of excessive emotionality and, in the end, will leave.
Decision
Constructive conversation is much nicer and more useful for both parties. What is the point of bringing down on the partner an entire avalanche of emotions and at the same time wait for a calm understanding answer? If a man is restrained, does not mean that he is inhibited. Perhaps he needs time to express himself. Do not rush him in this.
Useful advice
If a woman shows patience, attention and love, then she will definitely receive more pleasant things in return.