He can be smart, handsome, wealthy, have an excellent sense of humor and look at you with love eyes. However, doubts that a young man is truly suitable for you will overcome you from the very moment you meet. Until your relationship has gone too far, thoroughly understand the situation.
You will need
- the trip.
Instruction manual
one
Think about whether the habits and gestures of a young man annoy you. Watch how he eats, drives, washing, coughing. If a man suits you, even not the most pleasant little things will not cause you disgust.
2
Observe your own behavior when you are together. If you feel inner comfort, completely relax, do not be shy of your shortcomings, you can walk without makeup - these are definitely positive signs. With “your” man, you don’t want to invent anything about yourself and seem better. You will behave as naturally as possible, feeling unity and calm.
3
Embark on a joint trip. This can be both a foreign trip and a vacation at a camp site near the city. In a few days you can learn more about a person than in months of friendship. See how he will behave with you, what will cause him irritation, how he will respond to emergency situations. And most importantly: listen to your feelings after the trip. If you were really comfortable together, and you remember this time with a smile, then your relationship has a good future.
4
Take an interest in plans for the future of your young man. Even if you are very well with him at the moment, a man may not be suitable for you because of his further aspirations. For example, you dream of a cozy house and children, but even the appearance of a baby is unpleasant for him and he plans to spend the next ten years traveling around the world. You may have different tastes and temperaments, but the fundamental views on the most important things should coincide.
note
Do not arrange a man humiliating checks. Of course, any person can always be provoked to betray or lie, but such games can completely destroy the relationship.
Useful advice
Trust your intuition. If a person suits you, you are unlikely to even ask a similar question.
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