This can happen to everyone in life: you live in peace, meet and talk with your friends, and suddenly a person you don’t like talking to you. You do not know why, but communicating with him does not bring you any joy, but only causes discomfort. How to convey to a person his unwillingness to communicate with him?
Instruction manual
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First of all, calm down. Do not throw out your anger or anger on a person, even if he himself, unwillingly, has brought you to such a state. Understand that aggression is not the best way, even from a similar situation. If you let the anger off the leash, even against a person with whom you do not want to communicate in the future, this certainly will not bring you relief.
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Do not try to behave in such a way that a person with whom you do not want to communicate has an aversion to you. This means: rude attitude, incorrect behavior and any attempt to force a person to dislike you. You are mistaken if you think that the disgust of that person will cause him to stop looking for ways to communicate with you, and you will suddenly feel very happy because you will get rid of the problem. No, you won’t feel, but in place of one problem another will grow - remorse.
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Politeness is your main assistant. Be as polite as you are polite in communicating with your parents, friends and other people with whom you communicate in everyday life.
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Honestly, to tell a person that he is unpleasant to you, and communication with him annoys you, even if all this is laid out in the most polite form, it is still not easy. If you have a strong enough character, strong nerves and a little acting, then maybe you can do it.
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If you are not so honest, then try a different method. When this person wants to spend time somewhere with you, say that you are busy with work and for the next month you will not be able to devote even an hour to walks or gatherings in a cafe. If you see yourself in a circle of acquaintances, then try to choose a place away from this person, communicate with other people, being away from an unpleasant person. In the end, the person will get tired of running after you, and he will pay attention to someone else.
Useful advice
If you can’t choose between the last two variants of the outcome of events, then try to put yourself in the place of this person or try to predict his reaction. For example, if this is an annoying boyfriend, a narcissistic man who can easily switch to another object of courtship, then honestly admitting that you do not want to communicate with him will practically not hurt him. But with more vulnerable people it is better to act differently, but without using aggression or causing a person to dislike his person, as described above.