Confidence is the psychological side of a person’s personality. It is thanks to her that people form certain beliefs and views on certain situations. However, not everyone has this quality. So how do you recognize a self-doubt person?
Instruction manual
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You can even recognize a person insecure from afar. To do this, pay attention to his gait. Insecure people timidly take short steps, while often shuffling their legs and bending their knees. One gets the impression that the legs themselves lead such a person to where he does not at all have a desire to go.
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Posture, too, can tell a lot about a person. Stooping and shoulders down are signs of uncertainty. If the gait can be imitated, then such a number will not work with posture, because it is quite difficult to keep your shoulders straight from a habit for a long time. Tense back muscles will only give even more uncertainty.
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Lack of control over the hands also betrays uncertainty. If a person begins, roughly speaking, to fiddle and touch everything that is under his hands, then he clearly feels not at ease.
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When talking with a person, pay attention to where his gaze is directed. Confident people never look away. Unsure, on the contrary, cannot direct their gaze to the person with whom they are talking. Often they lower their heads down, while during the whole conversation they continually touch their hair and face. Of course, the cause of this behavior is not always uncertainty. It is also possible that the interlocutor is not at all interested in the topic of your conversation and he is trying in every way to get distracted.
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By the distance between the talking people, uncertainty can also be recognized. A confident person is not afraid that the interlocutor is located at a fairly short distance. Uncertain, on the contrary, during a conversation they try to keep a certain distance and in every possible way avoid bodily contact with a person. Of course, this criterion does not need to strictly judge people, because each comfort zone is different.
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Well, of course, it is worth saying about sign language. Uncertain people often take closed poses during a conversation, for example, cross their arms over their chests. As for the confident person, he shows with his whole body his openness and positive attitude to the conversation.