By learning to manipulate people, you can get almost everything you want from them. Perhaps you want to push your boyfriend to a romantic act or make your boss raise your salary. No matter who you want to manipulate, you need to work hard on yourself.
Acting
If you want to manipulate people, you need to learn to control your emotions, be able to convince people, play the role of a person endowed with all kinds of far-fetched feelings. Only in this way can you become a person endowed with a power of conviction greater than what you actually have. To gain these skills, consider attending acting schools. Trying on the roles of various characters, you can feel like anyone, this will help you better control the people around you. If you want to master acting for the sake of manipulating people, do not tell others about it. By this, you only arouse suspicion among them.
Public performance
Another way to get from people what you need from them is to learn to speak with the public and to conduct a lengthy monologue. This will help you understand how to formulate and convey your thoughts in the most constructive way, in addition, you will learn to convincingly argue and defend your position. This approach to manipulation is very well suited for further conversations, for example, with superiors or work colleagues. Emotions in a professional setting are practically not appropriate, and the skill of transforming images in this case will not help you.
Charisma
Almost all charismatic people know how to get what they need. If you want to learn how to manipulate people, you need to work on your charisma. Learn to create a positive atmosphere of conversation, work on body language. Your task is to encourage people to communicate with you. At the same time, it doesn’t matter at all with whom you will speak, it can be both a primary school student and a professor of history at a university. To become more charismatic, make people feel special. When talking with a person, look into his eyes, take an interest in his feelings and interests. Show your interlocutor that you value acquaintance with him, even if it is not so. Radiate confidence in everything you do, and then people will take you and your words seriously.
Study people
Each person has his own psychological and emotional traits, so there is no single action template that will help you manipulate everyone. Before you try to control and control a person, study his character, find out what your actions will help to incline a person to the actions you need. For example, some people are extremely prone to emotions. They can cry at the cinema, sincerely empathize with other people's troubles, etc. To manipulate such people, you need to splash out your own emotions, making them empathize with you until you learn what you need. If a person is very rational, he is not amenable to emotions, requires logic in actions and is constantly looking for evidence, a completely different approach is needed to him. In this case, your ability to calmly and convincingly convince a person of your rightness comes to the fore in this case, the emotions here will be completely superfluous.