Each of us is so unique that it is simply impossible to please everyone. Some people like talkative people, others are quiet. Some people prefer to communicate with an assertive and active person, and someone is much more comfortable with modest people. But despite this, there are qualities that appeal to absolutely all people.
1. Be friendly. It would seem an obvious fact that friendly people attract us much more, but often we ourselves forget about this while listing the troubles and worries. Try to watch yourself more often and change the frown on your face to a smile. And even more so, if you want to please a person, you should not behave with him aggressively or arrogantly.
2. Show interest. At an unconscious level, we are attracted to those people who are interested in us as individuals. Take the habit of genuinely interested in the life and feelings of your interlocutors, and good relations between you are guaranteed. And of course, do not forget about praise and sympathy, where they are appropriate.
3. Learn to be charming. Surely at least once in your life you talked to people in a state where your eyes are burning, you have more than enough energy, you are passionate about some business or experience, and at the same time, you can easily and easily talk with others. Or perhaps you were relaxed and relaxed in communication to such an extent that people themselves were drawn to you. At such moments, a person emits some elusive light from within, which is called charm. Learn more often to find this state in yourself, to live in it - believe me, then crowds of fans will always be near you.
4. Do not be afraid to be yourself and make mistakes. It seems to people insecure that their every mistake more and more pushes other people away from them. In fact, what repels in this case is not a mistake, but the tightness and closedness of the person himself. Whereas an open heart and mind always attracts people around. The society is so arranged that the sincerity and authenticity of a person to himself is always appreciated, causes more trust and sympathy. Do not play any role in communicating with other people, remain yourself - then it will be much easier for you to please any person.