A marriage proposal from a beloved man is the dream of any single girl. With rare exceptions, the lady cannot refuse such a request, even with the indefinite "I will think" one usually hears this: "Yes, but later." But if you do not want to connect your life with the person who makes you an offer?
Instruction manual
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Do not get lost. The excuse "I will think" was invented not only in order to obscure their chosen one in ignorance. If a fan caught you by surprise and you are not sure yet, give this answer. Later, preferably in person, you will tell him everything.
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If you have long decided that you will not marry him, do not beat around the bush, thinking how to present the truth. If a young man handed you a ring, do not take it. Do not change the distance, do not remove your hands. Say something like this: "We feel good together and you are a good person. You have no shortcomings, but we cannot live together because I am not the one you need and you are not the one I need."
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After such a refusal, if you met with a young man, your relationship will most likely cease to be as close. But better is the bitter truth than obscurity.