Getting older doesn't mean getting old. Once you understand this, you can take your age.
Famous Coco Chanel said: "Every woman has the age that she deserves." How to learn not to be sad on your birthday and look in the mirror without regret?
Every year a person gets older - this is obvious. But at the same time, we all have different perceptions of age - both our own and someone else's. Recall how in the first grade high school students seemed to us adults, and twenty-year-olds seemed aunts. In the same way, at 80 you will begin to tell your grandchildren that at 60 there was very much nothing.
But in the life of every woman there are critical periods when the inexorable course of time is felt most acutely. How to survive them?
First fears: 25-27 years
The appearance of the first wrinkles and a few gray hair often plunges their owners into a real depression. Girls rush to learn about cosmetic procedures and buy creams to help them stop time. And some even run to a plastic surgeon, demanding a facelift!
No need to panic: negative emotions have a bad effect on appearance! When we are concerned about something, we constantly frown, which is why facial wrinkles are formed. From strong experiences there are problems with sleep, which means that circles under the eyes appear. And some begin to eat without stopping - and spoil their figure.
Remember: unnatural fullness, an unhealthy complexion and a frown cast over the years of the girl. So do not bother with bad thoughts - old age is still far away. And do not engage in amateur activities, trying to preserve your youth in the wrong ways. It is better to contact a cosmetologist - he will tell you what means to use at this age.
Stay on top of fashion trends, new movies and music. Get interested in technical developments - gadgets, mobile applications. Go to discos, engage in popular sports - diving, skiing. The loss of the rhythm of modern life turns the girl, albeit into a pretty, but … aunt.
After 35 years
Closer to the age of 40, unpleasant emotions due to fading male attention are added to female experiences due to a changing appearance. Young people, if they jump up from a seat in a vehicle, are not at all to impress their well-mannered and get to know each other. And simply because they were taught to give way to elders.
In the fight against age, some ladies go to extreme measures, which does them more harm than good. If a mature woman puts on a radical mini and behaves like a naive, frivolous girl, and even builds eyes for young men, then this not only does not make her young, but also causes ridicule from others.
Want to look at your reflection without fear and skepticism? First of all, forget about laziness. Now you need to spend much more time on your appearance. And every day and in all directions - makeup, hairstyle, physical fitness.
Try to exclude poorly tailored, shapeless clothes of boring colors from the wardrobe. Let there be several stylish and expensive things in the closet instead of a dozen cheap ones. And the point here is not in fashion, but in perception. A well-dressed woman feels much more confident and attracts the views of others, including men.
Each age has its advantages. Female sexuality, for example, is revealed only to 35 years. Many men know this, so they choose experienced and sensual partners.
Only with age do women begin to value relationships for the sake of the relationship itself. We cease to demand constant attention and admiration from husbands and allow them to feel more free and independent. Men like this approach more than the inconstancy and infantility inherent in youth.
Remember the main thing: sighing about a bygone youth is a futile and even harmful exercise, because it makes you feel miserable. You need to learn how to live in harmony with yourself - and age will cease to scare you. And others will perceive you as you yourself want it.
After 40, life is just beginning
According to statistics, every third child in European countries gives birth to women aged 38 to 42 years.
32% of Europeans admitted that at 39-45 years old they fell in love literally without memory - they did not feel such a strong feeling even in youth; and 19% of them all ended in a wedding.
56% of Russians agree that it was at the age of 40 that their desires finally began to coincide with their capabilities.
Over the past decades, the image of a forty-year-old person has changed dramatically: today men and women look and feel much younger than their peers 30 years ago.