Infantility is not to face an adult. Because of this quality, people around him do not perceive him as a mature person, they do not take him seriously. If you want to become more adapted to life and independent, carry out work on yourself.
Instruction manual
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Look at yourself from the side to imagine how others see you. This exercise will help you make sure that an adult without a personal opinion, capricious, jaunty, with the habits of a child, can cause irritation or laughter. If you don’t want to continue to be treated condescendingly, start working on your own internal settings.
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Develop a clear position on each aspect of life that excites you. Think about what you want from life. Build your principles system. Understand yourself. If it’s still difficult for you to navigate the outside world yourself, choose the authority for yourself - a great scientist, politician or other person. Study the biography of your idol and think that from the positions of this person you are close in spirit.
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Broaden your horizons. Try to keep abreast of the political, economic situation in the country and the world. It is important not only to know what is happening in society, but also to be able to see the true background of events and understand what changes may occur in the near future. Stop living in your world, realize what is happening around you.
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Get rid of naivety. Look critically at yourself, your lifestyle and the people around you. Get rid of illusions. Do not take other people's words on faith, check the facts. Turn on critical thinking. Remember that you should not blindly trust others. Think about what your acquaintances or colleagues may have their own motives, and only then go to meet them. Do not be fooled.
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Become an independent person. Recognize responsibility for your own life. Try to provide for yourself. Stop hoping for someone. Only rely on your own strengths. Perhaps then you will have to reconsider many habits, to give up something. But in return you get a feeling of inner freedom and independence.
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Keep your word. If you gave someone a promise, do not deceive someone else's trust. Let others perceive you as a serious, reliable person. Thanks to this habit, you will cease to conduct empty conversations, become a more thoughtful person. Your attitude towards yourself, your words and actions will change.
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Learn to express your point of view. Use accurate reasoning. Set out proven facts in a logical sequence. During the discussion, try not only to state your position, but also listen to your opponents. The ability to understand others and be aware of one's own mistakes distinguishes a serious person from an infantile, stubborn person.
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Control your emotions. An adult is distinguished from a child by restraint. In some situations, for example, in a public place or at work, a violent expression of one’s feelings, especially negative ones, is not at all permissible. Take care of yourself. Do not allow yourself to lose composure in front of others.