The order in the apartment, in the garage, on the desktop speaks not only about the accuracy and cleanliness of a person. The order or, conversely, the mess in the house can be a direct reflection of the life situation. Moreover, this relationship has a retroactive effect. And therefore, wanting to restore order in your life, you should start with the general cleaning of the apartment.
Instruction manual
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Before you start cleaning the apartment, evaluate the scope of the upcoming work. Do not try to do all the work in one day. But do not postpone the cleaning "for tomorrow", every day finding a new reason for this. Make it a habit to clean at least one drawer a day, one shelf in a closet. Decide in which area of your life you would like to restore order. And when cleaning the apartment, remind yourself: "I am clearing my way to
.good work / warm relationships and so on."
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Collect those things that cause you unpleasant memories or are associated with difficult periods of your life, negatively affect your self-esteem. These can be gifts from people who, for one reason or another, have become unpleasant to you. Get rid of these things without regret. There are many ways to do this - give things to orphanages, shelters, nursing homes. You can also offer people to purchase these things for a nominal fee or to take for free. This can be done on the sites avito.ru, olx.ru and many others. Review books in your home library. As a rule, after reading a book, we put it on a shelf and will not return to it anymore. Leave only those books that you consider to be desktop, and take the others to the nearest district library. If you suddenly want to read a book, you can get it in the library for a while. Books will not gather dust on shelves, but with the help of the library they will fulfill their mission - to carry knowledge. In your house, space will be freed up and it will become easier to breathe, because books are great dust collectors. And in a house where there are many books, very often you need to do wet cleaning. Disassemble the things that are stored on the mezzanine, in drawers on the balcony, in the garage. It seems that they are not visible, which means there is no problem. In fact, deposits of these unnecessary things affect life in general. Answer honestly the question of how many years these things have already lay on mezzanines and have not come in handy. And give them a second life.
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Having finished spring cleaning in the house, take up cleaning life. Keep in mind that these two cleanings have a lot in common. And as unnecessary things litter your home, so unnecessary emotions, resentment and complexes litter your life. And the principle of cleaning here and there is about the same. It is necessary to consistently and daily disassemble the rubble. To clean up your life, start with a notebook. We very often spend valuable time on unnecessary communication for us - 5 minutes to talk about nothing with a meaningless person, half an hour to discuss in ICQ with those whom I never saw before, and then another couple of hours to chat in social networks. But in the end, real life and loved ones are deprived of time and care. Set priorities in communication, organize your contacts. Rewrite your notebook, review your contact list in ICQ …
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When freeing up time, do not forget about time for yourself. To restore order in your life, you must always devote yourself only at least half an hour a day. In these half an hour you need to do a lot. First, make a list of "junk", which in life is not useful. Believe me, you definitely do not need old insults, gossip, envy, anger, pessimism
Parsing the rubble of your inner world, ask yourself the question: "What good is this character trait for me? And what about this insult? And what about my quality?" Having found out what qualities are definitely not useful to you in life, start work on their elimination.
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Do business planning yourself. How at work each employee makes a work plan for the day, week, month, six months and a year, the same should be done with regard to restoring order in his life. Devote time and plan what needs to be done first, which is a bit later. The plan must also list global goals - for a year, for five years and for life ahead. You need to constantly remind yourself of your goals. And not only small, but also great. This life plan should not be static - from time to time it needs to be reviewed, made adjustments, added points, noted completed, etc.