In order to occupy a leading position in a group of people, it is not enough to have several qualities that provide external attractiveness. The ability to communicate with people, the ability to convince and support people. Being a leader is, first of all, responsibility for the actions of those people who are under your control.
Instruction manual
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First of all, work on your appearance. You should look appropriate to your surroundings. Follow the dress code and demeanor adopted in the group of people in which you strive to become a leader.
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Always be in a good mood. In no case do not complain about any inconvenience, you should build your authority on the fact that you can do anything. The leader has no problems except those that he must solve for those whom he leads.
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Use your natural charisma. Be confident in yourself without any support from outside. It doesn’t matter where you get this confidence from - you must clearly realize that in order to lead people along, this confidence must overwhelm you.
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Use your natural charisma. Be confident in yourself without any support from outside. It doesn’t matter where you get this confidence from - you must clearly realize that in order to lead people along, this confidence must overwhelm you.
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Be condescending to other people's weaknesses, support them when they need it. You must be clearly aware that you are responsible for the actions of each member of the group. The leader is not the one who commands, but the one who takes responsibility for everyone.
note
Remember that a person who does not know how to communicate rarely becomes a leader.
Useful advice
Learn to find a common language with other people and seek their location.