How often a situation repeats in life that you need to make a choice. And you rush between the two options, they both seem attractive enough to you, but if you look at them from the other side, all the attractiveness disappears right there. And you can not decide what to choose. Stop. Stop rushing around and try to understand what you really want.
Instruction manual
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Remember your goal. Present it as accurately as possible, in all details. For fidelity, take a piece of paper and write what you most strive for.
2
Once you clearly state your goal, begin to analyze the solution options from which you need to choose. Simply put, choose from the options offered to you the one that leads to your goal. Drop the rest.
3
Be prepared for the fact that you do not yet have a solution that leads to the intended goal. Show your character and give up all the options that lead you to the side. For example, you are determined to find a job related to your favorite business. For example, you dream to sing.
4
You don’t want to teach singing, to sing in a tavern where not the most attractive audience is going, you are also not interested. Give up on both options. Try to get a backing vocalist in any group. Sing unselfishly, for your pleasure, later you will definitely have the opportunity to earn money.
Know how to wait.
5
Ask for the advice of someone you trust. First, describe your entire situation so that the person imagines how you feel and what you are moving at this stage of your life. Tell us about the choice you need to make. Analyze all the solutions in terms of the pros and cons that they have. Reasoning this way, listening to the advice of a friend, you will quickly understand what you really want and make the right choice.
6
Provide a choice of fate. If both are close to you and you just can't stop at one of them, cast lots. Let fate make a choice. By the way, there is an opinion that no matter how carefully a person chooses, he will still choose his fate, even if it seems to him that he managed to deceive her.
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Analyze your previous experience. Have you made the wrong choice before? What did this lead to? Try to take the opposite decision this time, let it be risky and new for you, do not be afraid to experiment.
note
Never in any questions rush to the first available option. Wait for your chance, it will certainly come.
Useful advice
Never be afraid to make decisions. To make decisions is to take fate into our own hands. It is very nice to be independent. Give it a try.