So we are arranged that far from every person is capable of letting them into their personal space. Most people treat this with understanding, as themselves are the same. But there are such personalities who strive to break the distance and impose themselves on you as good friends or boyfriends. So how can you get rid of an obsessive person?
Instruction manual
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First, evaluate your behavior. Maybe you are not able to refuse to stick and make a decision that is beneficial to you? Or are you ready to help and warm everyone you meet, so as not to offend anyone? Then you have a direct path to personal growth training in order to learn how to defend your interests.
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In the meantime, while you are growing personally, here are some effective ways to get rid of obsessive people. First, use their methods. Does your colleague run to you every day for a moment and sit for hours? Do the same thing when she is busy with a serious report or in a hurry somewhere. And do not listen to any excuses - sit and all! Or on her next visit, try to borrow money or ask to run to the store for you. You can also try playing a star. Behave accordingly - arrogant, condescending and arrogant. Most likely, very soon an obsessive colleague will find another object for communication.
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If you are a girl, you are probably familiar with a situation where you like one man, and another, very intrusive type, is caring for you. Quickly get rid of it in your interests, otherwise the object of adoration will think that you are busy. Act boldly and decisively. For starters, try not to look at him during a conversation. This technique is very effective and quickly scares off. Or, conversely, with surprise, “devour” his eyes. This technique will not only confuse an adherent boyfriend, but also scare. If he invited you to a restaurant - order as many expensive dishes as possible and try to eat everything. Depict violent activity. Men don’t like all this and he is likely to quickly disappear beyond the horizon.
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However, if you are free, and all these methods do not work and you cannot scare away an obsessive fan, take a closer look at him - maybe he is your destiny. But if your husband is waiting for you at home, and the boyfriend is still persistent, then try another way: tell him more about your husband — how smart, beautiful and wonderful he is. If the obsessive fan is married, ask him about the family. From this, he will also not be delighted. Or try to talk to him about complicated and abstruse topics - the interlocutor will either become bored, or he will get carried away and forget what he really wanted from you.
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Thus, we see that getting rid of an obsessive person is not so difficult, you only need a little patience and courage to behave in a way that is not typical for you. But you can devote your time to what really gives you joy.