Staying in a relationship, a girl may one day understand that feelings have passed. What to do in this situation? Of course, it is necessary to try to get out of the situation with minimal losses. It is unlikely to be able to avoid emotional experiences, but it is quite possible to take into account factors that aggravate the separation. Let's figure out how to get rid of the former.
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Understand yourself. Are your feelings completely lost? Is there a chance to maintain this relationship? You can part with a good conscience, if you have done everything possible to maintain this relationship. Such an approach will allow us not to worry about a possible mistake in the future.
If a decision is made, talk seriously about ending the relationship, that they have no future. Although it is difficult, it’s better than ignoring visits, calls and expectations that he himself will figure out everything. It’s better to do honestly by talking frankly.
Be careful when ending a relationship
If the cause of the rupture can somehow humiliate a person, you should not report it. After all, if you change your mind, such a relationship will be difficult to renew. He may also promise to improve, and this will automatically create a more difficult situation. Just say that your feelings are nullified.
"Tomatoes wilted", you should not do the list of minuses: champing at the table, a tube of toothpaste, not closed on time, scattered dirty things, mess in the apartment, laziness and so on. It’s not worth talking when parting with nasty things, most recently this person was close to you. Remember, humiliating a person when parting, thereby you will humiliate yourself.
After parting, you must ignore phone calls and messages on social networks. No need to enter into correspondence, it is better to change mail and other accounts. Or add this person to blacklists everywhere so that messages are completely wasted to them and are not reached.
Be sincere
It is difficult to part with a person who sincerely loves you. But to deceive his feelings and stay together further is also not an option. He will feel cold and one day he will guess everything. Be prepared for the fact that a person who loves you will try to return the relationship. If the decision was balanced, do not react to it. Over time, passions will subside, and if you decide to continue communication, then the relationship can be kind, human.