Sometimes one has to hear the girls' complaints: they say, “And my appearance is even on the cover of the magazine, and the parameters are classic, and I dress stylishly, and the perfect hairstyle, makeup, and the guys bypass! But Masha can’t boast of beauty, the figure is far from perfect, dresses modestly, but young people like a magnet for her! What kind of injustice? " Indeed: why the "written beauty" is sometimes lonely, and young people vying with each other care for the same plain-looking Masha.
Instruction manual
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Yes, this situation is not so rare. The girl is generously endowed with fate: beautiful, slim, smart, well-off. What, seemingly, can be problems with personal life? But it does not contain that inexplicable natural magnetism, which captivates and irresistibly attracts the opposite sex. And as a result, her beauty, instead of attracting guys, alarms and scares them away.
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But do not despair. A girl with desire and perseverance can very well learn to behave in such a way as to charm almost any man. First of all, she needs to remember firmly what qualities of the weaker sex attract men, make a woman charming in their eyes. And also the fact that men very clearly distinguish between the concepts of "flirtation" and "married life." Accordingly, they willingly twist novels with fatal beauties, but marry those girls in whom they see kindness, loyalty, patience and understanding.
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Therefore, if you want to look charming, irresistible in the eyes of young people, learn first of all to be kind, cheerful, generous. The guy should be good, comfortable in your company. No scenes, vagaries, tears, inexplicable (for men) mood swings! There is simply no better way to push a young person away from you. Learn to control yourself always.
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Carefully, without interrupting, listen to the guy, no matter what he says. If you are well versed in the topic, occasionally ask short clarifying questions. If his story is uninteresting or completely incomprehensible to you, try to carefully, tactfully transfer the conversation to another topic. The guy will certainly appreciate your behavior.
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Try to get as many positive emotions as possible. Learn to enjoy the simplest natural things: clear, sunny weather, a beautiful flower in a flower bed, a sincere smile of a baby who is being taken for a walk in a stroller. And this joy will imperceptibly become your nature, creating a warm, benevolent aura around you, the very charm that seems to attract the opposite sex with a magnet.