People tend to be jealous of their loved ones. Losing the one you love is perhaps one of the most difficult trials in everyone's life. And it is quite natural that a person makes every effort to consciously or not to avoid such an outcome. Therefore, when they encroach on someone whom we think nobody has the right to encroach, and such a sad feeling as jealousy arises.
Sometimes one of the partners intentionally makes him jealous of the second, in order to refresh the relationship. Sometimes this happens, but most often it leads only to problems in relationships and conflicts. But sometimes jealousy and provoke is not necessary. Often people meet jealousy for whom, an integral characteristic of a person. Excessive suspicion, constant questioning, distrust - all this more often leads to the fact that the partner gets tired of such a relationship and simply leaves.
The emergence of jealousy. What causes jealousy? How does it transform, grows into almost manic? Most often, the root of the problem lies in low self-esteem. It is for this reason, from doubts about one’s positive qualities that haunt the assumption that every second person is better than himself, self-doubt and gives rise to such a state. Fear of becoming superfluous, unnecessary, fear of experiencing loneliness again.
Manifestations of female jealousy are more associated with a fear of losing their well-being. Most women hide this feeling, trying to suppress. Another part of the delightful half of humanity goes into open conflict with their young man. That in the first, that in the second case, this does not lead to anything good. In the end, one way or another, relations between partners deteriorate, mutual understanding is lost, and as a result, people are estranged from each other.
How to deal with jealousy? It is best to try to open the cards and talk with the man, explain to him what specifically did not like and what feelings they experienced. It is also worth trying to understand your inner world, to understand exactly what reasons make you jealous. You need to analyze your internal settings and try to change them. This process, unfortunately, is very, very long. Therefore, you should be patient in advance. If, however, attempts to independently understand the problem of the expected result do not bring, then the best thing would be to seek professional help from a psychologist.