Often you can hear the opinion that the greatest strength of a woman is the ability to be weak. In fact, she is not at all weak, but she knows how to seem. The strength of a female character is something completely special and not noticeable at first glance.
Few men will say that he likes strong women. But these are just words, in fact, if a woman has the strength of character, this does not mean at all that she will push around her husband and command him. On the contrary, this behavior is characteristic of those who do not feel confident, and therefore can not do without a demonstration of "leadership."
A strong woman is one who maintains self-confidence in all circumstances. It is independent both spiritually and materially. The past did not have to speak about material independence, since social roles were distributed quite rigidly: a woman sits at home with children, and a man makes money. Today, an increasing number of women prefer not to spend their lives washing diapers and on the stove, but build a career on a par with men, if not better than them.
Moreover, a really strong woman will not depend on a man, even if only he works in the family. After all, how often it happens: having married and considering herself wealthy, a girl can relax, stop developing, begin to completely depend on her husband, and not only in material terms, but also in psychological terms. A strong woman will never allow this.
It happens that women who are strong with respect to careers and the implementation of work projects, who are inevitably successful in business, cannot establish their personal lives. The paradox is that strong people attract the weak. About such a woman there are more weak men than those with whom she would feel on an equal footing.
A strong woman can cope with her weaknesses at a critical time. Everything happens in life, but when unpleasant surprises happen or the situation is such that it can be called a disaster with great success, rather than just a state of affairs, a strong woman can get together. She will not waste time dissolving snot, although then, of course, she will cry on her friend’s shoulder. But now she will pull herself together and do everything to correct the situation.
A strong woman is able to survive and forgive other people's weaknesses. If next to her are people who are not in every way equal to her, she will not petty and vindictively recall them their mistakes. She will help them, starting with the fact that she will forgive and extend a helping hand. Strength means magnanimity, so it will not harbor resentment. A strong woman can forgive.