Habits - in principle, what a person’s life consists of. It is not surprising that a number of them make our life much worse than it could be without them.
Stop flaunting your life, telling everyone and everything about your sorrows and joys. Let your life remain only yours, you can discuss it with friends or relatives, if you want, but certainly not just with friends. This approach will add mystery to you, as well as relieve anxiety and gossip behind your back.
Become punctual. Nobody likes to spend time waiting, it is very annoying. Being late for meetings, you thereby show your disrespect for another person. If you have to be late, be sure to warn: call or write a message.
Set your phone aside while chatting with friends. It’s a little disappointing when you say something about your life, and your interlocutor buried his phone at that time and "chatted" with might and main or simply looked at a news feed. In addition, the Internet can never replace live communication.
Take life in your own hands. Do not wait for the fairy to come one day and magically change your life. Become such a fairy yourself and start managing your life yourself. This will save you a lot of time, and the mental energy that you spent on empty hopes can be spent on inventing ways to achieve your goals.
Do not think that your life was unsuccessful just because you encountered difficulties on the way. One way or another, each person has a moment when his hands drop and it seems that there is only hopeless darkness. Do not despair, it will pass. Never give up, fight hard, and one day, when the problems recede, you will realize that you have become stronger and have gained precious experience.