Two heads are not always better than one. In a person’s life there are turning points when he must make his own decision, having weighed all the pros and cons. Close people can certainly participate in this, but their advice should not be taken as a guide to action.
Independent choice
A person facing a difficult choice has doubts. To get rid of them, he often turns to advisers - friends, relatives, loved ones, etc. Sometimes this gives positive results, but it also happens that close people who pursue good goals can unwittingly do harm. Two heads are not always better than one. There are situations in which a person must independently make a choice, weigh the pros and cons, so that then for the rest of his life he does not regret his actions.
Listening to the opinions of loved ones, a person should not forget about his inner core. "Two heads" is good, but all the fateful decisions must be made independently.
Where are the "two heads" not appropriate?
The advice of loved ones is certainly a useful thing. However, you do not need to take them as a guide to action. For example, when choosing a life partner, a man should not sacredly listen to the opinion of his mother, who is passionately seeking new flaws in her. An applicant holding a list of universities should keep away from the intrusive opinions of relatives, listen to himself and choose what he sees fit. In human life there are a lot of turning points that require important decisions. If you let them drift or systematically use the services of a "stranger" head, at the end of the path there will remain a feeling of dissatisfaction from the untapped inner potential.
Should I heed the advice?
Good practical friendly advice is an excellent assistant in many household matters. For example, it’s difficult for a person to solve any difficult task at work, decide on a tour for summer holidays, buying a new expensive suit, a gift for the second half for Valentine's Day, etc. In such situations, close people can not only advise, but also share experience, review all possible options. In this case, we can say with confidence that two heads are better than one. Without such support, a person would have made much more mistakes, stepped on the same rake, because, as you know, it is better to learn from someone else's experience.
Acting as an adviser, the main thing is not to drag the stick to your side. Excessive imposition of one’s own opinion can harm loved ones.