Sometimes it’s hard to be able to love yourself. Usually this problem affects people with some kind of flaws, both real and imaginary. Often, children's psychological trauma affects the process of a positive attitude towards oneself. But you can fight this, the main thing is to know how.
For starters, just accept yourself. You must realize that a negative attitude towards yourself is unlikely to ever help you. Even if you have any shortcomings, this does not mean that you are worse than everyone else. All people have weaknesses, just someone does not notice them and receives everything from life, and someone concentrates exclusively on the negative. Your task is not even to ignore problems, but to accept. You need to be aware of their presence, but not make them the source of your problems.
Stop scolding yourself. Even if you do something bad, this is not a reason to curse yourself. Any self-reproach literally kills self-love. Moreover, it can become a habit. Surely you yourself know a few people who are used to constantly complaining and saying how bad they are.
Do not deceive others and yourself. Even if you tell yourself that there are no problems, they still will not disappear. This is not a way out of the situation, since it can only aggravate the situation.
Gain self esteem. Find within yourself parties for which you can truly respect yourself. Surely you have achievements that you can be proud of. Constantly think about them, and also set new goals and achieve, then you will definitely be able to love yourself.