When a person is confident in himself, then it is immediately noticeable. He attracts attention with all his appearance: straightened shoulders, not tense posture, calm expression. Even if you see such a person for the first time, then after a short communication you already understand that he is all right with self-esteem. This is easily determined by external signs, and very rarely when the impression is misleading.
Instruction manual
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Confidence in oneself and one's own strength is, first of all, an inner feeling. The manner of behavior, noticeable from the outside, is determined primarily by what the person feels. If someone who has always been quiet and indecisive tries to adopt only external signs, then he is unlikely to be able to deceive others. People feel the intrinsic real power. Therefore, trust your feelings.
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Pay attention to how a person moves. Confident people do not fuss, they are calm, sometimes even somewhat slow, but not from slowness, but as if from awareness of the importance of each movement they make.
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Listen to how a person speaks. Important signs are natural gestures and intelligible speech, in which there are mostly affirmative sentences, and phrases such as “I don't know, ” “I'm not sure” are almost absent. The volume level is just such that the interlocutor was most comfortable perceiving what was said. If the speech is designed for a large number of listeners, then a confident person will speak loudly and legibly, and in a situation where it is better not to make noise, his speech will be quiet.
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A characteristic feature of a self-confident person is a direct look, an open expression on his face, and also the correspondence between those emotions that he experiences and those that he demonstrates. Strong people are not shy to show their true face, and this attracts others to them.
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Aggressiveness may seem like a sign of strength, but in reality it is an indicator that a person is very afraid. Unceremoniousness, arrogance - all these qualities indicate that the aggressor deep down fears that if he acts calmly, then no one will notice him.
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There is another important point that may become noticeable to others not immediately, but after a certain time of communication. This ability to go to your goal, without looking back at others, without hesitation and not regretting what you had to lose for this.
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To pinpoint a confident person, it is important to know the signs of uncertainty as well. Quiet speech, replete with unnecessary explanations and details, a large number of hints, impersonal sentences, indecision in gestures: all this is necessary to hide your wishes or requirements, to present them in a veiled form. The pose of such a person is usually unnatural, his shoulders are lowered, he does not look into the eyes, the gestures are too strong or almost absent.