Self-confidence is the most important feature of all successful people. And many wonder: how to become the same? The main thing to remember is that with a good self-esteem they are not born, they create it. Therefore, everyone has a real chance to cultivate the necessary feeling in themselves.
You will need
Notebook, pen, time
Instruction manual
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For starters, stop comparing yourself to other people. Believe me, there will always be someone more beautiful than Monica Bellucci, smarter than Einstein and richer than Abramovich. The only person with whom you must compare yourself is you in the past. Therefore, keep a diary, write down all your positive traits of character and ability. Each person owns different qualities and the set that you have is truly unique.
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Remember all those beliefs that were passed on to you from parents, teachers and other people. It is the beliefs that “write” into our heads that play a crucial role: all successful and wealthy people are villains; money is earned by hard work, etc. Now make them the opposite. For example, money comes easily and quickly. Repeat them every day for 30 minutes. Try not only to speak, but also to feel these words. At first, the brain will resist, but over time, you will “overwrite” the old settings with the new ones. What will give an excellent result: life will begin to change for the better.
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Every day, write in the diary the successes that you have achieved today. At first it may seem that you haven’t done anything good, you will very soon realize that you are doing much more than you thought. For example, they gave useful advice to a friend or fed a homeless cat. These things are not trifles, they show that you have something to value yourself and love.
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Pay attention to your appearance: your posture should be even, your gait sure, and your voice moderately loud. Also, keep an eye on clothes and shoes. Even not expensive things can look presentable if they are clean and well-groomed.
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Go to exhibitions and meet new people. Nothing helps as much as communication and knowledge of the world. Also, make it a habit at least once a week to watch an inspirational film that was shot on real events. Usually, in such pictures, people achieve success, which will give you motivation. After all, the hero is not fictional, he once lived and went through a difficult path to his goal.