This happened! You have a boyfriend and you are crazy about him. But your mother believes that you are still not old enough for a serious relationship, and frivolously at your age to consider your usual hobby something more. In fact, everyone around you already knows about your romance, and only mom is in the dark. Want to share? Is it time to introduce mom to the chosen one? But how to tell mom about the guy? Let's get down to business.
Instruction manual
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Choose a time when you and your mom will be able to talk together in a calm, confidential atmosphere. When no one bothers you and your mother will not be busy with urgent matters. The question is serious enough, and it will be better if you manage to talk on the go or in between.
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Start from afar. You should not immediately bring down on the mother the whole gamut of your feelings towards the chosen one.
Ask your mom about her first date. What was mom's first guy. Listen to your mother carefully, show sincere interest, perhaps you will know your mother better, and it will be easier for you to understand each other.
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Now tell her your story. Let her know as much as possible about your boyfriend, do not be afraid to answer her, maybe questions that seem not too important to you, about his parents, social status, place of study, character, hobbies. Your mother knows more about this life than your friends, and loves you like no other, so she has the right to know and will be able to help you in any situation.
note
Before you tell your mom about the guy, make sure that he is ready for a serious relationship. It will be wrong if, having time to tell mom, you will immediately part with the gentleman.
Useful advice
Remember, telling your mom about a guy isn’t the most difficult thing. It will be more important to prepare their personal meeting. Think it over with your mom and help your loved ones find a common language, your future relationships may depend on this.