It happens that a kind and interesting person in a company is embarrassed, speaks rarely and little. Because of this, communication problems are created, because communication is important for the environment, and one who does not support it falls out of society a little. How to overcome yourself and become more talkative?
Instruction manual
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For starters, be yourself and don't be afraid of it. If you start to hide behind the mask of someone else, it will be easily felt in the company and will not give you any confidence in yourself. Do not be afraid to express your opinion, to speak in the way it is pronounced within you, and to behave in the way that is peculiar to you.
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Even if you are uncomfortable, try to remain optimistic. Keep a slight smile on your face, this way you will make it clear to others that you are nearby and react to people and the situation, and you will relax yourself, you will feel an influx of self-confidence.
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Remove excess importance from the situation, do not take your and other people's statements too seriously. Even if we are talking about something important, do not evaluate each spoken word is very critical. This is just a conversation, and it is built not only on the exchange of phrases, but also on the general atmosphere of goodwill and interest.
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Be respectful to your interlocutors, listen to them, appreciate the fact that they share something with you, and then they will also listen to you with interest and attention.
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A sense of humor helps to integrate into any company and conversation. This will not only attract people to you, but also liberate yourself, since laughter is the best cure not only for a bad mood, but also for self-doubt. Do not know what to say on the case - do not be silent, but joke nicely.
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Do not recall your past negative experiences in communication. If once you were not allowed to speak, you were disrespectful to your words, you should not project this on everything that happens after. The fear that was born within you, and which you diligently continue to cherish, will never allow you to learn to speak freely and openly in companies, unless you step over it and leave it in the past.
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Be patient. You remember that with your old friends, with whom you now feel absolutely relaxed, at the very beginning of your acquaintance you felt awkward, and you were less talkative. It happens the same way with all people. Wait until the addiction occurs, and then everyone will listen to you, answer you and comment on your words. Just don’t be afraid to talk and wait a bit, and eventually you will realize that the problem of greater talkativeness in the company has disappeared by itself.