Do not bother your family life with unnecessary problems. Maybe you are not making obvious mistakes that upset your relationship internally. Identify and eliminate them.
Do not "cut"
For the third week you have been warning that a faucet is dripping in the bathroom, but the repair is still not visible? Instead of constantly "sawing" a partner, prefer to complain to a friend over a cup of coffee. This will not hurt anyone, but if you constantly push, pollute your relationship with negative energy.
Do not be discouraged
Complain to someone who agrees to listen to how hard it is for you and your partner to live? If it’s serious, get divorced, if not, don’t complain. Constant complaints and nagging do not constitute a constructive solution to your potential problems. If you and your partner have problems, solve them with him, and not with your friends in a cafe.
Do not control each other's purchases
"Lord, why do you need another new cell phone?" Next time, when you want to ask a similar question, bite your tongue. If you do not have huge problems with financing basic necessities of life (plus, the partner pays for his expenses himself), let each other have little joys. Even if you live in a marriage, you should not report to each other why you decided to give yourself a small share of happiness.
Are you both so busy with your work, children, or other interests that you forget to take a time out and use it for yourself? When was the last time you spoke calmly? When was the last time you had sex? If you do not set aside time to spend together, the distance between you will increase, and there is a danger that you will not be able to find a way back. Do not underestimate the power of communication and communication between you. Time devoted to relationships will pay off handsomely.