People from all countries and continents are familiar with the tale of Cinderella. In its various interpretations, it has been around for several thousand years and was known even in Ancient Egypt. Millions of girls have always naively believed that if they are kind, hard-working and modest, sooner or later they will find a reward in the form of great and pure love. But many modern Cinderella are of a different opinion, and they no longer believe in fairy tales of love.
Modern Cinderella are those girls who, like the heroine of the well-known fairy tales of the Brothers Grimm, find themselves in a difficult life situation. They can grow up in single-parent families or families built on the ruins of old relationships. One of the parents often lacks time or desire for their upbringing and development. And in new family structures, they sometimes turn out to be superfluous, especially in the case when little brothers and sisters appear to whom parents give all their love and affection. Is it any wonder that, having received less attention and love since childhood, sometimes they themselves are not capable of showing high feelings. Yes, many of today's girls still want to believe in miracles in their hearts, like in the fairy tale about Cinderella, they want to Someone appeared on their life (preferably a handsome sportsman) on a white Mercedes, but love on the scale of their life values clearly does not come first. However, the fairy tale also does not speak of the big and bright feeling of a poor working woman girl who is socially equal, a poor and kind guy. You see a young zamarashka who is passionately dreaming of looking at least from a distance at the royal ball, a palace that is so unlike her own home, and ethereal beauties in amazing luxurious dresses. And the prince, having begun the search for an earthly angel, did not imagine that he would see him in the forest with a bundle of firewood and cheeks smeared with ash. Here are real, not fabulous "Cinderella", well-informed, thanks to a powerful arsenal of domestic and foreign media about what needs to be done in order to be not a celebration of life, make their dream (of the castle and the Mercedes) a reality. Having spent all their savings on cosmetics and clothes, they try to splurge the infantile offspring of wealthy families. And some of the young ladies with hungry hungry eyes, judiciously reasoning that there is still not enough for all the princes, agree to turn any "rich Pinocchio" around, putting up their only value for sale. Unfortunately, if too many such goods are brought to the market, he, by all the laws of the economy, drops sharply in price. And this creates a new wave of cynicism
.But is it worth condemning poor girls for not wanting to clean dirty fireplaces and separate beans from peas in bags purposely mixed by someone? “Why is everything everything to someone, but the rest is shish with oil?”, Modern Cinderellas ask. It seems reasonable for them to advise them: work and get everything. And they, taught by their bitter experience, retort: “And how many workers did you see there on Olympus?” A significant part of young women, who have not lost their moral principles, try to break through life with their labor. But, tearing their teeth and claws up in the cruel world of business, they stop believing in fairy tales of love even faster than sellers in supermarkets. And, nevertheless, if you look at the results of various sociological surveys of Russians about whether they believe in love, you will be pleasantly surprised: at least two-thirds of women answer this question in the affirmative. To do this, they do not need fairy tales and princes in incredible castles, because they are ready to just love, making their boyfriend the guy who loves and is nearby.