Our modern life has become more complex than the life of our grandfathers and grandmothers. Today it is much more difficult to achieve happiness, realize the goals, create a full-fledged family. We have to invest more time in personal development, gain experience and knowledge, learn to live in new conditions. You can influence your development with the help of audio recordings, articles, books. When a person reads or listens to something similar, he is inspired, but only for a couple of days, and after that everything is forgotten. Why this happens, let's look right now.
Filtration
When choosing literature for personal development, many people are faced with a dilemma: which is better? There is not much time and I would not want to spend it on something unknown, new. Where are the guarantees that the information is suitable. Recommendations and ratings help to make a decision. In an age when every second person writes books, try to be prudent in your choice.
Unprepared for change
Many people strive for stability, because stability provides comfort. Self-development is constant changes. You can’t just read special literature and become better, more balanced, happier. The information you read should only push you in the right direction, to thoughts and actions that will change your life. A man is a slave to his habits, therefore he meets everything new with caution. Another point to consider is age. The older a person becomes, the more he appreciates constancy. If you want to succeed in something, don't be afraid of change.
Self-development as additional stress
All people are very busy every day. They simply do not have the time and energy to "improve themselves." In addition, many are afraid to give themselves and their relatives hope that everything will work out, that the set goal will be justified, and the time spent will not be wasted. Do not be afraid to take risks sometimes and organize your time correctly.
Lack of meter
Each person is different, therefore there is no general measure for the development of "personal growth." Moreover, almost everyone would like to somehow evaluate their progress, to see it. Achieving this is pretty hard, but that’s no reason to back down.