There are thoughts that hold us in the very place where we are now, preventing us from changing for the better and achieving new goals. If you notice at least one of them, it's time to fight it.
"That is unnecessary"
The desire for comfort and tranquility is inherent in us by nature itself. Sometimes, even the most successful people would like to drop everything, sit down and “not rock the boat”. But such a life has not yet made a single person happy, especially since peace is only an illusion that exists for the time being. If you have a goal, you must do everything conceivable and unthinkable in order to achieve it. Doing nothing, you will not achieve anything, so start moving already.
"I'll start tomorrow"
Putting aside something for tomorrow, we thereby give ourselves the chance to come up with a dozen or two excuses in order not to do what was intended. If you have decided or planned something, do it now or at the time for which the task was assigned. So you stop this series of unresolved tasks and self-deception.
"Now is the wrong moment"
Remember: it is "now" that is the best moment for the implementation of what was conceived. Read this book now. Wash the dishes now. Now make that important call. Our cunning brain will always look for loopholes to evade the need to strain and waste its resources. Do not give in.
"If only I was
then it would work out "
Of course, luck plays a significant role in achieving success. But she loves the strong, persistent and courageous. In addition, do not forget about your personal abilities, which are much more important than any luck. Develop, realize your potential, and you will achieve everything that you have in mind.
"I'm not good enough for this."
Never, no matter what happens, do not fall prey to circumstances. It happens that you can’t stop with the person who is exhausting you, or change the job to a more pleasant one for you, simply because you do not believe that you deserve something more. Start working on yourself. Find a new hobby, meet new people, develop as a person. Allow yourself to become what you always want to be.