Very often, in the company of their friends, women begin to discuss husbands. And in most cases, things do not go beyond complaints about your soulmate. "Before the wedding, he was completely different!" they exclaim. And no matter how sad it is, but mostly women themselves are to blame for the negative changes in their husbands. Rather, in her attitude to him after the long-awaited marriage.
What is the problem?
After marriage, the woman herself changes. Her nit-picking, sometimes baseless, control, ignoring the interests of the spouse, cool his attitude towards his wife. And such a manipulation of her husband, popular with many women, with refusal of sex, can ultimately lead to betrayal. But if the spouse supports, trusts and trusts in everything, encourages her man, then the incentive to perform feats with him is multiplied.
If a woman takes on her husband’s responsibilities at home, then the man simply loses his self-confidence and, as a result, the desire to do something at all disappears.
When a woman tries in every possible way to show her independence, ignores male opinion, is bold or rude, it is only natural that he simply ceases to see her that charming, sweet girl. She stops making compliments, giving gifts, somehow pleasing her beloved.
What to do?
When a woman sees dignity in her chosen one, she must certainly tell him about it, show how she loves him and then her beloved’s self-confidence will increase. It is worth noting even minor positive nuances.
There are many examples when a man in his first marriage is a loser and a bummer, in the second - the same person turns into an exemplary family man who seeks to provide all the benefits of his family. It is a woman who is able to instill confidence in her abilities in a man or finally select one. A woman should first engage in educating herself, and only then, caustically notice the shortcomings of her husband and dream of a better share. Since it depends on a woman whether peace and harmony will reign in the family, or whether married life will turn into a constant war.
It so happened that it is inappropriate for a woman to play a dominant role in the family. For a strong and full-fledged relationship, she must give the "reins" to the person whom she so passionately and ardently dreamed of marrying. A man must always feel significant, otherwise, he may lose interest in the affairs and problems of the family
