Love is not a panacea for all problems. When a feeling comes to life, it can make it brighter and more amazing, but not always happy. People sometimes encounter a situation that there are emotions, there is a loved one, but there is no general satisfaction.
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Love is not a cloudless feeling, it is bright and fascinating only at first, and then the “pink glasses” fall off, a person faces harsh reality. Instead of falling in love, everyday problems come, half of the shortcomings become apparent, all this is annoying. This is the stage that all couples go through, and love is not so happy, the presence of a loved one is sometimes even annoying. No need to be scared, wait a bit, this stage will end. It is only important to try to see not everything bad, but to concentrate on the good. At the same time, give up criticism, from condemnation, try to be friendly, support your spouse in everything. Gradually, respect and affection will help to become even closer, and differences will be forgotten.
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Feelings are like seasoning, they do not change life, they only make it brighter and more interesting. There is no need to lay high expectations on love, because she herself is not able to change events, cannot solve problems. Happiness is not always associated with the presence of this emotion, and therefore you need to continue the search for harmony. It is very important to begin to transform yourself, change your mindset, and learn to respond positively to what is happening. Resentment, guilt, fears make life difficult and unstable, it seems that the future does not bring joy. Freeing yourself from these feelings, letting go of negative experiences, you get freedom from uncertainty, each new day will carry something amazing and useful. Look for happiness not outside, but inside, and then the world will become much better.
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Analyze your relationship with your spouse, perhaps the feelings have faded away. If love has passed, it is worth taking a short pause in the relationship to think about whether to go further together. A short vacation alone will help to understand what exactly does not suit what needs to be changed. Perhaps after this break you decide to leave this person, but this will only be a step on the path to new feelings.
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A person’s life consists of several parts: family or relationships, work and implementation, financial well-being, communication with family and friends, relaxation and more. If it has developed in one direction, this does not mean that everything will be excellent in others. Having a loved one does not solve problems in work, money, relationships with other people, which is why a feeling of lack of happiness may arise. There is no need to rush to look for reasons in a partner; here it is important to balance life correctly, to change it for the better from all sides.
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Think about what you are not comfortable with in other areas? Start correcting what you don't like. For example, you can change jobs or find an additional source of income. Training will be relevant, and it is not necessary to go to college, it is enough to finish courses or just start reading books that will help to succeed in the profession. You can change your circle of acquaintances or find a new hobby. With these actions you will diversify your life, make it more eventful and interesting, and also turn your attention from thinking about problems in a couple to something else.