Parting is a difficult period in any relationship. I want to go through it quickly and painlessly. If you correctly explain the reasons, do not give a reason to yourself and him to continue, and also do not constantly remember the past, everything will go easily and smoothly.
If you are the initiator of the breakup
If you have decided for yourself that you no longer want to continue, that it is time to forget a person, you need to explain it to him. It is better to do this not by phone or on the Internet. Be courageous and meet somewhere, tell him personally that you are no longer ready to continue the relationship. Choose a place in advance, you do not need to go where you felt good together. Choose a cafe, square or club where you have not been before, then this space may seem negative to you.
Think over your words, because a person must ask about the reasons. Here honesty is very important. If you stop loving, do not hide it, if someone else has appeared, tell yourself. The partner then still finds out, but from the lips of others it will be more painful. You need to say all this calmly, without anger or excessive gentleness, just be yourself. Sometimes it’s appropriate to apologize for hurting a person.
Do not give a reason to a person to think that something can be returned. At first, do not answer calls, do not write messages. Answers can be regarded as a chance to return everything. But you will only make this person even more painful. Of course, in a few months it will be possible to communicate as friends, but this is only after the pain subsides. And before that, try not to cross so as not to disturb the wounds.