Treason is not uncommon in today's world. But statistics say that men decide on such actions more often than women, and the motives can be very different. The most common: lack of love, boredom, revenge, or casual communication.
Instruction manual
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A man begins to change only when something does not suit him in a relationship with his wife. Only after the appearance of some problems is it possible to go to the side, so you need to look for the reasons inside the relationship, and not outside. It is necessary to analyze what has changed since falling in love, why the old relationship has become different. And that will be the main reason.
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Men cheat on a lack of love. If a woman ceases to pay enough attention, if she is too passionate about children, she forgot about her husband's needs. Career, friends, development can distract from the most important thing - interaction with a partner. And then he begins to look for love and admiration on the side. And the new woman does not know his negative sides, and does not scold him for nothing.
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If there was no love in the marriage, the man will certainly begin to search for it. These are options for creating a family for calculation, pregnancy or other circumstances. The most important thing is that if there is no love between the two partners, then betrayal will certainly manifest itself. If even one loves, and the second does not, this is also an occasion to search for adventure.
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Uniformity is the biggest problem in all relationships. After 5-10 years, everything becomes the same. Each new day is similar to the previous one. And here it is necessary to look for ways to change everything, or a man will look for a new woman. After all, a lover allows you to once again feel the taste of life, to return interest in what is happening. You can only avoid constantly boredom by changing something, but not every woman can do this.
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Psychologists say that some people have a psychological need for two women. If the boy was raised by his mother and grandmother, he was used to the love of two persons, and one wife was not enough for him. This can be called a psychological dependence on the attention of the ladies, and if the wife is single, then he is simply not comfortable. If this is the reason, then you need to contact a specialist, since it is very difficult to solve this problem yourself.
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Doctors say that intimacy with two women helps a partner to be more confident in an intimate relationship. During arousal, a woman secretes substances that are called natural stimulants of an erection. They pass through the mucosa into the body of a man and make him a good lover. They work only 2-3 years, and then addiction occurs. And a man often subconsciously searches for precisely new substances. If intimacy occurs with two women, then addiction is slower, which gives confidence to the man.