In the life of any person, sooner or later there are situations when you need to take responsibility for someone or for something. But it is very difficult to decide to carry such a load, and sometimes you don’t feel like taking this step at all.
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Think about how strong you are in this situation. In life, sometimes there are both completely irresponsible people and overly responsible people. The former relate to life too simply, not believing that they owe something to someone, and their conscience has long been sleeping deeply. The second, on the contrary, as if they bear all the hardships of the world, constantly complain and try to solve not only their own, but also other people's problems, and not always successfully. Both those and others rush to extremes, not being able to assess their strengths and capabilities. Therefore, you always need to understand what you will do in order to then answer to someone or to yourself. Do you really have the burden that you want to take on?
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Consider the seriousness of your actions. For example, deciding to take a kitten home, you already take responsibility for it. But, as often happens, people are not sinless. And after some time this kitten can be handed over, for example, to an animal shelter or given to a friend. The reasons can be different: it gets dirty, meows at night, or just doesn't like it. But the result is one: this act obviously will not decorate you - you could not stand the responsibility. And this, of course, is bad, but the attitude to this creature was initially not too serious. Another example is the desire to have a baby. There are no options: if you consider yourself a person and understand what conscience is, then there can be no question of any shelter. So, this step should be deliberate, serious, it will take a lifetime to answer.
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Do not be afraid to be responsible. Any rational person understands that turning a blind eye to problems and simply not solving them is stupid. After all, any decision is a responsibility. You have to deal with it daily: at home, at work, with friends. So, not everything is so scary. The main thing to remember is that no matter what situation you are in, you have close people who can support with advice, and sometimes help you carry a difficult load.