Having parted with a man, you realized that you made a mistake, and now, day and night, make plans for his return? Winning a former may be a difficult task, but if your heart tells you that he is the one, then you should definitely take a chance.
You will need
- Vera
- Time
- Liabilities
- Hope
Instruction manual
one
Immediately after you broke up, send him a note (preferably a note - no emails, sms or messages on social networks) that you are happy that you still broke up, and that you also thought about it. Then wish him happiness, health and other benefits. Then you will need two to three weeks to conquer it again.
2
The first week is very difficult - you will always feel miserable, and this is exactly what you should not show and what should not be felt. Try to spend more time with friends, try to go to the gym to distract.
3
In the second week you should start to communicate more with new people. Go to parties and concerts, try to have fun as it should. And all this time, avoid any contact with your ex. If you want to talk about breaking up, try discussing it with your closest friend or make yourself an anonymous diary where you can pour your feelings.
4
The third week is a turning point in your relationship with your loved one. He will begin to seriously wonder why you never got in touch. Therefore, most likely, he will ask your friends about this or he will firmly settle on your Vkontakte page or on Facebook, looking for reasons why you are not calling him. Now get ready for him to become jealous.
5
Try to spend more time with people, make dates, or just make new friends wherever you can. Wait some more time until your ex starts to be jealous of you in full force and comment on your photos in which you are depicted with unknown men.
6
After another week, try to accidentally call the former and arrange a short friendly lunch with him. The main thing is to make it appear as if your schedule has no more time for this lunch for more than 30 minutes. At the same time, try your best to make these 30 minutes fun. Flirt, joke, be confident in yourself.
7
The last step to conquer the former is a second first date. 5-10 days after your short lunch together, call him and make an appointment for him at dinner (this is actually a date, but don’t tell him about it). During a date, try to act as if it is the first and as if you are not with your ex, but with a completely new person, and a new relationship awaits you. Try to behave the way you behaved during your real first date. If everything works out, he will be with you again.