Each baby that comes into the world is special, unique, unique. Growing up, we receive approximately the same education, we live by the same rules, principles, laws. We eat only food, we wear similar clothes, we visit the same places. Often we strive not to stand out, but not to lag behind, comply with "average" norms so that no one laughs. One day enlightenment comes. We look at babies and think about when our own uniqueness was lost. And we begin to create ourselves anew, as a new mechanism, no longer afraid to be a special person.
Instruction manual
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Find a big dream. To do this, you need to get to know yourself again. Academician Mirzakarim Norbekov in the book "The Experience of a Fool or the Key to Insight" told how he was with the monks in the mountains. There you had to constantly smile. Who did not smile, that as a punishment carried water in a heavy jug along a mountain trail. A week later, everyone smiled. People freed themselves from disease, began to enjoy the sun, grass. When they returned to the city, it was difficult to live among gray faces, dull people. If possible, get out to nature. Take along books on achieving success, on setting goals. Walk barefoot in the grass. You will perceive everything differently, the soul will spread its wings.
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Develop your personality. What makes a person special is not natural data, not talents, but hard work on oneself. When iron ore is extracted from the earth, it is of little use in this form, although it has valuable properties. Having gone through many processes of change, it turns into wonderful, useful things. So is the human soul. She is good on her own, but requires processing.
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Spend time, not like everyone else. Now it’s easy to stand out, because most people have turned into “robots”. Eat, sleep, go to work. Free time is spent on absorbing entertainment programs and discussing news. Strive for achievements. Take time to practice your skills. You will quickly go forward. People will be surprised to see you.
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Learn from great people. Write down their principles of life. Reread until you absorb all that is important into your mind. He who learns from the great ones cannot set low standards for himself.
note
You will need confidence in your abilities. It appears when a person takes on impossible tasks and achieves success. If the solution to chess problems is impossible for you now, learn how to do it. Look for such opportunities, there are many of them. Confidence will grow stronger and turn into a way of thinking, in relation to oneself and life.
Useful advice
Do not try to stand out with expensive things. Once you meet people for whom it is not essential.
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