Visualization of the man of his dreams, or, as they say, the ideal man - the process is interesting and fascinating. But the result will depend only on how well you followed the visualization technique of the future partner.
The relationship between a man and a woman is one of those that excites the heart and soul of every person. And even more attention is paid to the search for "your" person who would please both the heart and the mind. If this search were not so complicated, then in the world there would be much less broken hearts and divorced spouses.
Where does success begin? With competent planning, which takes into account all the important nuances, little things.
Everything that comes into our life has good reason. For example, it is impossible to fall in love / fall in love with absolutely any person, in any case, before falling in love, there is already a certain image in your head that the chosen one somehow suits. It is enough to recall in more detail the acquaintance with the person whom later fell in love: in this person almost immediately the qualities that touched the strings of the soul were visible.
Therefore, it is necessary to more carefully work out the image of the future chosen one (s) in your consciousness, and from the consciousness the image will pour into the subconscious, and you will be attracted to the right person like a magnet.
How to create an image
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Think over all the details of appearance. For example, for you height or weight is not so important, then you can not mention it. And if it matters, then you can specify: growth from 180 to 190, weight such and such. Hair color, eyes can also be imagined, but if it doesn’t matter, then do not focus on this. Maybe for you the most important thing in appearance is a beautiful smile with healthy and even teeth, you can take note of this.
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Character. This is more complicated. It is important to focus on those character traits that sound in a positive way: kind, responsive, calm, caring, reliable, leads a healthy lifestyle, etc. Wording: he is not quick-tempered - undesirable, it’s better to say: calm, balanced. These features are more difficult to keep in memory, it is better to write them on a piece of paper.
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It is important to consider the quality. Whether he will be an intellectual and a romantic, or a jaunty and unpredictable one is up to you, everything is up to you. If it is important for you that you can visit museums, exhibitions, learn languages with your future husband, then this must be taken into account.
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Work and career. Qualities that are important in our time. Therefore, it is important to take this aspect into account as well. Maybe you see the future husband of a certain profession, maybe he is a scientist or just a smart and successful businessman - also your choice. One can imagine what kind of boss he is or how he is loved by money, and he very easily makes a living, traveling, etc. This is not commercialism, but an important quality, because any woman wants to feel like a man behind a stone wall and get ready to become a mother in peace and confidence in the head of the family.
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Household chores. Another important point is life. If it is important for someone that a man helps to vacuum, then why not include this in the list? As for men, they can imagine a woman who cares with love for the house, cooks deliciously, brings comfort and takes care of home.
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Life together, plans for the future. It is important to take care not only of meeting the person of dreams, but also of how the joint life will proceed, what goals you have in common, plans. Maybe you want to move to another country?
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The environment of the future half. You must admit that it is very important that you can easily find a common language with your friends, parents and relatives. Consider this, if this is a key point.
- Well and, of course, the most important thing! You love him with all your soul and mind and get the same emotions and feelings from him!
When the most complete image is ready, all the most important qualities are taken into account, you can transfer them to paper. This list can be replenished.
How to work with "finished material"
And now you need to visualize the man of dreams, well, or the ideal man. In no case do not think that you are not worthy of him, such an ideal. We all deserve all the best! To begin with, you can read the notes on a piece of paper several times, close your eyes, relax and imagine yourself next to this little man, he is already here with you, in your life. This should not be a dream, visualize in a familiar environment how you have dinner together or watch a movie.
It is periodically important to refresh what you wrote so that the image is more accurate. And so every day for half an hour it is necessary to devote time to visualizing the ideal man. Believe that he is already right now, at the moment next to you, do what you love, scroll through your mind that he is so good, so perfect.
Good visualization is when you smile and experience warm and bright emotions, the joy is so strong that you want to be happy and laugh!
Believe me, it is not in the future, it is already near you, you just need to wait a bit when it appears not only in your consciousness, but also in reality. Reality is inert, a little patience and success is guaranteed!
And when the meeting occurs, you will immediately understand: this is it!