Once again, the day did not set in the morning. The alarm did not ring, because you did not start it from the evening. Coffee was spilled because, for fear of being late, my hands were trembling. And then, on the way to work, I met a necessary and very important person, during a conversation with whom several random, but at the same time grosser mistakes were made, which at another time could be easily avoided. Hands drop, and only one question revolves in my head: "Why am I spoiling everything?"
Instruction manual
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Fear and doubt You raised the bar too high for yourself. You are too critical of yourself. "I must be perfect in everything, " "I should never make mistakes." This attitude makes you constantly in suspense, but you can’t keep track of everything in life. The more you try to be perfect in all your affairs, the more things you need to control. Until a certain time, this works, but the brain and body have their limits. It is impossible to concentrate on everything at the same time, and one or two victories will come when you will begin to spoil everything simply because you are not able to analyze all the incoming information and make the right decision.
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Disorganization You know what, when and how to do it, but too often indulge your whims, your laziness, your insignificant needs, which, oddly enough, take time and effort to satisfy. You know that you can come to the meeting on time, but you are late because you decided to watch a movie or finish tea before going out. By satisfying your momentary desires, you are missing out on promising opportunities. Well, blaming others does not make sense. Learn to take responsibility and deny yourself small pleasures for the sake of something more. In the end, you can drink tea or watch a movie at another time.
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Unreasonable self-confidenceExcessive self-confidence, life on the principle of "I am the smartest", "I am the most important" leads to the fact that people cease to take you seriously, your presence begins to annoy them. At the same time, such a belief makes it difficult to assess the situation soberly. You think: "I can do it, because I own the subject perfectly." You are relaxed and do not want to pay attention to signals that something is going wrong. As a result, the situation is getting out of control. You ruined everything again. But they could alert themselves in time and take the necessary measures to eliminate problems.
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Thoughts Any quantum physicist will confirm that man is energy. And his thoughts are also energy. The more you think about ruining everything, the higher the chance that it will be. After all, energy can also have a positive and negative charge. Like attracts like. Thinking of failure, with all your appearance you express this failure - drooping shoulders, dying eyes, tired walk. Mentally, you have already failed, and now you just wait for the people around you to create a situation of your fall in real life. Raise your head, straighten your shoulders, smile and go forward - you will win.
note
If you intentionally spoil everything, rejoice that everything is working out for you, that you are achieving your task.