Only by loving people will we be able to always find a common language with them, and our life, of course, will become fuller, more interesting and happier. But finding love for an outsider is not so easy, and it will cost considerable mental and mental strength.
Instruction manual
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Never make premature judgments about anyone. If a person does not behave very beautifully, do not rush to call him a boor or a snapper. Putting yourself in the place of another helps in this, you understand that you may not be very nice in different situations. A bad day, a quarrel with loved ones, a disease - all this can ruin a character for a while, but it does not make a person a negative character for life.
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Recognize that all people are different, and not one of them can fully comply with either you or some abstract norm. Absolutely different characters, temperaments, habits, different upbringing and environment. If you do not like something in a person, this does not always mean that something is wrong with him, most likely, he is just a different, completely unfamiliar world to you.
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Despite the fact that in each person there may be those qualities that are unacceptable to you in any form, there are also positive aspects in it, and there is no need to doubt it. For example, a creepy, at first glance, gossip may be the only one who does not leave you in trouble and helps to cope with difficulties. A closed and sharp person can be surprisingly honest and responsible person.
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Often exactly what annoys us in others is also in us. You think that your colleague is too sloppy and tasteless - pay attention to yourself, perhaps you also have these qualities. Start correcting them in yourself, and over time you will stop paying attention to others in this context.
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Remember that the almost always made-up judgment about a person with whom you are not close friends is the result of your thought and imagination. Few people have the ability to see a person through an X-ray machine, so do not even try. Your first impression has a right to exist, but it will remain this first impression, it is not worthwhile to elevate it to an absolute and ascribe it to another person.
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Love and respect for people emerges from self-love. If you do not love yourself, do not expect this feeling for others, everything is reflected according to the principle of a mirror. You are critical of yourself; you are just as intolerant of everyone else. Love yourself, acknowledge your uniqueness and value, that you are amazing and beautiful, and then you will realize that those other people surrounding you in this big world are the same.