Lies are pouring from our lips every day. It does not matter whether it is conscious or not, the lie remains a lie, no matter how you call it. The need to deceive teaches us resourcefulness and self-control - the more we learn about lies, the less we come across it. A few simple rules will not reveal your fraud.
Instruction manual
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Believe what you are talking about. If you are not confident in your words, then talk about your interlocutor!
2
In order to avoid doubts, think over your story in detail. How would you tell her if she really were. Here you have to get used to the role a little. Perhaps something that you want to lie about now happened to you once upon a time. Then just consider telling the truth, but slightly biased in time.
3
You should use your memory, otherwise you will get confused in your own lies. If your hamster has died, then he should not do this every week.
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Memory is important when you talk about the details. By the way, do not go too deep into them, but they should be present in your story, and only well thought out, and not appearing from the floundering bay.
5
Lie halfway. To make the deception look more convincing, dilute it with the truth, preferably one that can be verified.
6
Do not exaggerate. What seems important to you may well be a trifle for others.
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Remember the physical manifestations of lies. Try to keep track of how you speak and move while talking. Look into the eyes of the interlocutor with confidence. You may be ashamed, but you decided to lie.
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Be prepared for failure. In case you are discovered, there must also be an excuse to minimize the consequences of lying.
note
Do not think that you are surrounded by idiots. Perhaps your interlocutors lie better than you, and this option is also worth considering.