Other people's problems are sometimes so disturbing for some people that they plunge into the lives of other individuals, forgetting about their own. If you have this situation, stop thinking about others and take care of yourself.
Say no to other people's problems
Let people solve their own problems. No need to think for them. By patronizing them, you deprive yourself of the opportunity to tackle your own destiny. In addition, your friends and relatives, for whom you often solve some problems, lose their independence and become less adapted to life. It turns out that constantly helping others, you render them a "bear" service.
Do not let others hang their problems on you. Try to refrain from advice, remain neutral in any situation. Do not take the initiative and know how to refuse if you are addressed with an uncomfortable request. Learn to be firm. You can refer to your employment or incompetence in a particular issue.
If you take responsibility for the lives of others, it will not lead to anything good. The role of advisers and assistants is such that in the event of an unsuccessful outcome of events, they become guilty of failure. Giving others recommendations on how to build their personal, social life or career is a thankless task.
Do not consider yourself an expert in all areas. You cannot give competent advice to another person, because you do not know all the nuances of his life. Only man himself is able to find the right solution for himself. The maximum that you can give to a friend or loved one is empathy and moral support.