The opinion that only a particularly talented, charismatic person can become the soul of a company is not entirely true. You can learn effective communication methods, manage the attention of a group of people, maintain and develop good relationships with others if you wish.
Instruction manual
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Learn to listen. This quality is even more important than eloquence in building effective relationships. Become an excellent, attentive, understanding listener, and you will be loved in any company. Use the techniques of active listening: keep eye contact with the interlocutor, ask questions to clarify certain points in his story, show with gestures that you are listening and understanding him.
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Practice communication. Becoming your own in a new company is easier for the person who communicates a lot. It is not enough to know the secrets of effective communication. You should regularly and for a long time train them in practice. Try to establish contact with each of your colleagues, do not be afraid to start a small, insignificant conversation with a stranger.
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Develop a sense of humor. A person next to whom is fun, easy and good, like a magnet, attracts other people. Keep some jokes and funny stories in store, watch more comedies, read ironic stories. Treat everything with a small amount of irony, be an optimistic, cheerful person, and you will be able to win the love of others.
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Do not forget to compliment people. Sincere praise on a non-trivial occasion will cheer up people around you and bring them to you. Just remember that the compliment must be true and not too exaggerated.
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Try to get rid of your complexes. To do this, you need to love yourself, focus on the strengths of your character and the advantageous aspects of your own appearance, and just forget about the shortcomings that cannot be fixed.
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Evolve. Be an interesting conversationalist. To skillfully maintain a meaningful conversation, you need to be interested in the realities of your life. The more versatile you are, the more you can have conversations with other people.
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Watch your appearance. Let your clothes be ironed, your shoes clean, your skin fresh and your hair tidy. With a man who looks good and smells good, I want to talk much more than with a slut.