So often from somewhere you hear: "He is not a man, he is a rag!". Any woman dreams of a man-defender, wants to feel like a stone wall. But in the end, you have to rush with him like a child and solve all his problems on his own.
Instruction manual
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How many do not tell him that he should be a man, how many do not say that he is a rag, it is unlikely that this will change anything for the better. Rather, it can piss off and make him leave forever. In such cases, the action will probably help. When making a request to a man, most often there is no result, because we do not wait for action on his part, but we do everything on our own. And he got used to it, he likes it, and he absolutely does not want to intervene and change the state of things. Because of what he hears statements addressed to him that he is not at all a man. In this trivial situation, you should not take the initiative and solve all problems. Let the man do it, but you can spur him on, responding to his requests in the same way as he fulfills his male duties.
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Often a man after several joint years of life ceases to take care of himself, stubble appears, disorder in clothing appears. Perhaps he already has to be dragged into the shower by force and forced to use a deodorant. He didn’t give a damn, he relaxed, because he knew that you won’t run away from him, no matter how he looked. Jealousy can help. Try to make him jealous, returning from work a little later than usual, just visit with friends after the cafe. Watch the reaction of your man, wake the man in him.
3
A man can be a coward, and it's just disgusting. It’s clear that, having stumbled upon a crowd of drunk people going to seek adventures in the evening, it’s better not to react to them, since there is nothing worse than aggressive and inadequate personalities. But if in broad daylight you hear unjustified insults against you, then it’s not a sin for a man to give the offender an eye. If a man cannot intercede, he is not interested in who and how offended you, then he is not a man at all. But if he was just frightened, you can get out of the situation by persuading him to sign up either in the gym or in martial arts. It takes not so much time, but gives confidence and courage.
note
Do not go too far, trying to cause jealousy, act gradually. Think about whether you want to keep company with your man by going to the gym. For both this would be beneficial.
Useful advice
Do not humiliate the dignity of a man, it can be painfully perceived, although there will be no noticeable external signs.