A shy person attaches great importance to someone else's opinion and ponders how he looks in the eyes of others. These thoughts prevent you from truly revealing in the company and show your best qualities. It's time to become yourself and enjoy communication.
Instruction manual
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Do not exaggerate the importance of someone else's opinion. Any person can have their own point of view about the interlocutor, but no one has the right to make fateful decisions. Stop being afraid of what others may think about you, and stop thinking badly about everyone yourself. People are more likely to reflect on themselves. Learn to trust and do not look in every look for malice.
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Build confidence in yourself. Any person has advantages and disadvantages. Focus on your strengths. Determine what exactly you do better than others. If necessary, bring these qualities to perfection.
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Do not wait for a signal to action. Take the initiative in your own hands. Believe in your own exclusivity. Study the biographies of successful people, their experience of overcoming difficulties and constraints. Take an example from your idols and act.
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Unleash your potential. Acquire new knowledge and skills, strive to be comprehensively developed. Share your thoughts and talents with others. Show your creative potential first in a circle of loved ones, and then in an unfamiliar company.
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Overcome fear. Fear of being not up to the mark, making mistakes and hearing someone’s condemnation completely makes it impossible to act at ease and show abilities. Accept in advance a possible defeat and only tune in to success.
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Your own opinion should be the main thing for you. Take calmly the criticism of others and learn to give your own assessment of current events. Decide for yourself that your opinion is more important than the point of view of others.
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Talk more often and learn to experiment. Imagine yourself as an actor who plays the right roles every day. Try to show different qualities of character. Spend one day cheerful and the other sad, in some situations, allow yourself to scream, but somewhere do not be afraid to be funny.
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Be sincere and positive. Feel free to express your feelings and thoughts. Show attention and interest in the interlocutor: offer your company, and if necessary, provide assistance. Smile more often, enjoy life and develop a sense of humor. A confident, cheerful and optimistic person is valuable in any team, and his shortcomings can turn into virtues in the eyes of others.