We choose, we are chosen, as it often does not match
Alex Leslie strongly disagrees with the famous quote. His fourth book, “How to Wake Up Away, or the Secrets of Successful Dating”, clearly and readily tells all afflicted young men how to finally gain self-confidence and overcome fear of girls. A recognized guru of pickup, or the art of seduction, claims that his technique will help to find long-awaited happiness in his personal life. Waking up in someone else's bed after the first date is quite realistic if you follow the rather simple advice of master Leslie.
Instruction manual
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First of all, understand what you really want. If there is no sincere interest in girls, a desire to understand them and find out better, do not bother with such things, because seduction is much more complicated and multifaceted than just proximity for one night. The seducer is not a commonplace womanizer. This is a subtle psychologist and creator. Creator of his own relationship with women. A man striving for the main goal of seduction is to become a favorite of women and give them what they want.
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Further understand that it is not women who choose. He chooses a strong one, a male chooses. And women like it. They like to obey force, because it is in the genes. Understand one more thing that will turn your hitherto calm world - there are no inaccessible women, there are wrong approaches to them.
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Learn to sell yourself. In other words, change yourself and learn to profitably present your strengths.
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Get used to a new date structure, make a woman want you. Using preliminary SMS reconnaissance, build the image of yourself in the head of the girl you like. Do not be afraid to shock her. Your goal is to interest and intrigue. Women love puzzles. Never call a girl first. Make her want to call you first, it will significantly increase your importance, and with it the chances of closeness. Change your idea of a date, turn everything upside down. Intrigue, surprise everyone with what you can. Realize all the fears and fears of the girl, and she is almost guaranteed to fall in love with you.
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Never have a date in one place. Change of places, constant movement will not let the girl get bored and lose interest in you. The best way to get rid of the fear of dating is to spend an eight-hour date with the same woman, constantly talking and moving around the city. During this time, you can get to know the girl so much that, finally, relax and develop your own approach.
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During a date, do not abuse alcohol, but rather completely abandon them. In case of questions, come up with a legend. And the more incredible it is, the better.
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On a date at appropriate moments, speak in a chest voice, women like it. Use every opportunity to accidentally touch the object of sympathy. Here, fortune-telling on the arm is suitable, and "I just removed the eyelash under the eye, " and "oh, you got your nose dirty."
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Be flexible, but always bend your line. Always be confident, even if the date didn’t go according to plan. Do not give the girl the opportunity to doubt his strength and confidence.
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Remember for life: your goal is to sink into the soul of a girl. Master her soul and heart. After that, everything else will be available too.
note
Be passionate about something other than women. There are so many interesting things in the world. And women are simply drawn to passionate men. Do not become callous egoists. Sincerely love women, pamper them. Give flowers and gifts. After all, life without women is so sad.
Useful advice
Use every opportunity to find out everything about the girl that will come in handy for her seduction.