Have you ever met a person who would be constantly busy with his appearance and reputation? Or maybe this person is you yourself? The sooner you begin to get rid of your own self-doubt, the brighter your life will become.
Instruction manual
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Always keep in mind that passersby only see you for a few seconds. If you are very complex about the appearance, keep in mind that those people who meet you all day in the subway, on the street, in a cafe, do not care about you. They can, of course, pay attention to your “funny” skirt, hairstyle, handbag, etc., but the likelihood that they will remember it all their lives and taunt you is negligible.
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To make sure of this, try to do something uncharacteristic for your lifestyle and behavior. As a rule, only close people or those who know you well react to such actions. And all the other people around will not care. People are too busy with their everyday problems to laugh at you all day, month or year. After all, it’s just such a long time that you cannot forget someone's sidelong glance in a tram or cafe.
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Love yourself. If you are afraid of every opinion, this indicates low self-esteem. Do you like your clothes, occupation, circle of interests? If all this does not threaten your health, the safety of other people and does not contradict the law, it has a place to be. Do you want to be a librarian, and friends and spouse insist on an entrepreneurial career? Listen to your heart, not other people's stereotypes about prestige and social status.
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Focus on your best qualities. This will make a charming and interesting person out of a person insecure. Work on yourself daily, praise yourself even for small successes. And do not forget to smile. Remember that around you millions of people living in the framework of imposed stereotypes. And if someone is trying to prick you with a look or a word, most likely he wants to establish himself at your expense. In this case, apply a sense of humor or mentally regret the notorious bully, and then completely forget about what happened.