Girls, having fallen in love with a guy, begin almost immediately to plan a future wedding with him, then their family life, the birth of children and a carefree old age together. Men perceive everything differently. For them, relationships are not an impulse to think about a joint future, no matter how good it is together. Many women, faced with such a reality, fall into the trap of their own dreams.
Instruction manual
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A man is in no hurry to introduce his beloved to friends. It is clear that at the stage of acquaintance, the couple is only occupied with the fact that they enjoy every minute spent together. But, when the relationship is already moving to a closer and more trusting level, a man who is serious about his chosen one will certainly introduce her to his friends.
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A man does not introduce his girlfriend to his parents. Faced with this, many women tend to panic and sound the alarm, insisting on the indispensable acquaintance with their parents. But this situation is not so critical. Just in fact, a man can have a difficult relationship with his family. No need to put pressure on him, you can try to bring him to a conversation, if he does not agree to this, then the topic is really painful for him and it should be left for some time.
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It happens that when a couple visits some public place or just walks around the city, but the man does not show signs of attention, completely steps back and does not even look at his companion. Women immediately think that he is embarrassed by her, but that is not the point. If he was ashamed, he would simply not leave the house. Perhaps he is just bored with his lady.
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During each date, a man drinks a lot of alcohol. There are two explanations for this: either he is very unsure of himself, or this is his addiction.
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Rarely calls and writes. Women tend to justify their partner, saying that he is very busy, that he is driving and there is no way to contact her. No need to fool yourself. It takes quite a bit of time to take an interest in how your beloved feels, what she is doing, or simply say that she missed her.
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Constantly wants to change something in the appearance of his girlfriend. This is an alarming signal for a relationship. Because a person who truly loves loves the soul and appearance of the chosen one, and not individual details that can not be changed.
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Asks for money in debt. The nature of a man is such that he should feel like a leader in everything, be able to independently provide not only his own life, but also fulfill some of the whims of his chosen one, no matter how temporary their relationship. Only a man who does not take a woman seriously or one in whom Alphonse’s habits are strong can ask for money.
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If at least a few points coincided, then do not despair that relations with such a man did not work out. In life, one will surely meet one in which there will not be any of the above items.